How can one prevent insecurities?
Making assumptions isn't necessary, preventable?
What about preparing for the worst?
Being pessimistic?
Bad?

My explanation?

It hurts lesser that way.
I can't handle disappointments.

Digressing,

What will you do when u have cousins driving your grandma to her grave o.o Screw them?
How i would love to =) Sounds really nice eh...